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“Ask a Priest: Are There Books That Prove the Existence of God?”

Q: Please recommend books for my son. He is in his 30s, a college graduate in business and philosophy, and states that he is agnostic. He was raised in the faith and attended Catholic elementary and high schools. He wants books or references that prove the existence of God and that God in fact loves us. I told him about Jesus dying on the cross for us. He states God never answered him when he was Catholic. He has been struggling with these issues for about 10 years. I’ve been praying for him and recently fasting. This is the first time he is open to reading whatever will help him see the truth. Thank you in advance for your help! – G.

Answered by Fr. Edward McIlmail, LC

A: You have the true heart of a mom! Your concern for your son is admirable, and your e-mail shows that your spirit of hope is alive and well.

You mention that you son thinks that “God never answered him.”

It is possible that God in fact answered your son, but in an unexpected or subtle way. Or perhaps the Almighty’s answer was no, and your son wasn’t open to that response.

In any case, it is a positive sign that your son is asking for the books. Your prayers and fasting might be meriting the grace that he needs to start moving toward a conversion.

Now, the Church doesn’t offer proofs about the existence of God in the scientific sense. It can offer solid philosophical arguments in favor of the Almighty’s existence. But strictly speaking, if this kind of thing could be proven, we wouldn’t need faith.

Nevertheless, a few resources that might help are:

— A CD, “Proofs for the Existence of God,” by Father Robert Spitzer, SJ

New Proofs for the Existence of God: Contributions of Contemporary Physics and Philosophy, also by Father Robert Spitzer, SJ

Five Proofs of the Existence of God, by Edward Feser

How to Think About God: A Guide for the 20th-Century Pagan, by Mortimer Adler

— Also helpful could be this webpage on “Twenty Arguments for the Existence of God”

In the meantime, keep praying for your son. And if he needs nearby proof of God’s love, your son need look no further than his own mom.

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“Ask a Priest: How Do I Connect With God?”

Q: I am not sure how to have a relationship with God. How do I know it is God communicating to me? Why doesn’t God manifest himself to everyone in the world for all of us to see? –B.R.

Answered by Fr. Edward McIlmail, LC

A: You raise big questions. God manifests himself to us all the time. It’s just that we fail to notice his hand at work.

Let me explain. God the Father sent his Son into the world to reveal his perfect plan for us. Thus Jesus is the height of Revelation. And we find him in the Gospels and in the Eucharist.

God also manifests himself in the beauty of the created world. Everything around us that is good is created by God. The air we breathe, the food we eat, the people we love — all were created by God. All are signs of his providential care for us.

Then there is our conscience, that inner voice that tells us to do good and avoid evil. That can be God’s way of communicating with us. (Conscience has to be well informed, but that is another issue.) Suffice it to say that we can be sure it is God communicating with us when we feel inspired to do something objectively good.

Lastly, you can simply look in the mirror. Where were you 100 years ago? You didn’t exist. I didn’t exist. Now we are here. God created us. And with the eyes of faith we can see his gifts all around us: our faith itself, our family, our health, our intelligence

But your question remains. Why doesn’t God show himself more obviously? A proper answer would require a book-length answer. Suffice it to say that God leaves just enough room for mystery to allow us space to make an act of faith in him.

God doesn’t want us to be robots, programmed to follow him. Rather, he created us to enter into a relationship with him, a friendship. And since he wants us as his friends, he doesn’t force himself on us. Rather he invites us, gently and respectfully. To accept that invitation is to make an act of faith.

Besides, if we could “prove” God’s existence, then we wouldn’t need faith. On the other hand, though, he gives us enough evidence for us to have a reasonable basis for believing in him and in his providence.

The best things in life tend not to be scientifically provable. Think of a mother’s love, or the love between a husband and wife. Things like that can’t be measured, but we know they are real. And without them life would be barren.

Perhaps it would help to pray to the Holy Spirit so that he can enlighten you about how close God is to you.

Helpful too would be to make time for prayer and a bit of Scripture reading each day. Two companion books that might help are Father John Bartunek’s The Better Part and Father Thomas Green’s Opening to God.

Include acts of charity, and you will provide fertile ground for God to communicate amply in your soul.

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Alex Kucera has lived in Atlanta, GA, for the last 46 years. He is one of 9 children, married to his wife Karmen, and has 3 girls, one grandson, and a granddaughter on the way. Alex joined Regnum Christi in 2007. Out of the gate, he joined the Helping Hands Medical Missions apostolate and is still participating today with the Ghana Friendship Mission.

In 2009, Alex was asked to be the Atlanta RC Renewal Coordinator for the Atlanta Locality to help the RC members with the RC renewal process. Alex became a Group Leader in 2012 for four of the Atlanta Men’s Section Teams and continues today. Running in parallel, in 2013, Alex became a Team Leader and shepherded a large team of good men.

Alex was honored to be the Atlanta Mission Coordinator between 2010 to 2022 (12 years), coordinating 5-8 Holy Week Mission teams across Georgia. He also created and coordinated missions at a parish in Athens, GA, for 9 years. Alex continues to coordinate Holy Week Missions, Advent Missions, and Monthly missions at Good Shepherd Catholic Church in Cumming, GA.

From 2016 to 2022, Alex also served as the Men’s Section Assistant in Atlanta. He loved working with the Men’s Section Director, the Legionaries, Consecrated, and Women’s Section leadership teams.

Alex is exceptionally grateful to the Legionaries, Consecrated, and many RC members who he’s journeyed shoulder to shoulder, growing his relationship with Christ and others along the way. He knows that there is only one way, that’s Christ’s Way, with others!