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When Sacrifice is Chosen for Us

Dear Friends,

Every Christian to some extent understands the concept of sacrifice. The dictionary describes sacrifice as the surrendering of something for someone else.

We choose which sacrifices we are going to make to help ourselves grow in holiness. We choose to not eat certain foods or drink certain beverages when we know they are harmful to us. We choose how we are going to tithe from our income to support the Church and which local charities we favor. So often, we view ourselves as generous because we choose to offer this or that.

But what happens when the need for personal sacrifice is chosen for us? What happens when the dreaded diagnosis of cancer or dementia or a child with special needs or the loss of a job are thrust upon us? No one chooses that.

One of my favorite authors is Jacques Philippe. In his book Interior Freedom, he shares his insights regarding choosing sacrifices or consenting to those chosen for you. He believes true inner freedom comes when we consent to that which we would not have chosen for ourselves or our loved ones. Especially when it comes to suffering. St. Therese, in one of her notebooks, reminds us we can only suffer one moment at a time. We often dwell on the past and fear the idea of suffering in the future, but all we really have is today.

Every day we have the choice to willingly accept opportunities to sacrifice our will in the present moment or fight against it. Fr Philippe says, “Hearts anxious about tomorrow can’t be open to the grace of the present moment.” What is most important is not what
we can do for the Lord, but leaving space for what God can do in us when we consent to a sacrifice we didn’t freely choose.

Yours in the Heart of Jesus,

Donna

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Freedom and Humility

Dear Friends,

Being Set Free: In Luke 1:67-69, Zechariah starts his canticle by blessing the Lord “who has come to his people to set them free,” free from their enemies so that they are free to worship him without fear. Zechariah foresees the fulfillment of God’s covenant in Mary’s womb and foresees the mission of his newborn son as the one who will “prepare the way.” I have often thought, “Does no one see the irony here?” He is talking about an infant and a baby in-utero coming to set everyone free.

This contradiction, improbability, and general unrealistic expectation sets the stage for what has become our central Christian belief: God became human, “dwelt among us” (Jn. 1:14), suffered and died, redeemed us from sin, rose from the dead and now invites us to his Kingdom (heaven). This is very different from the gods of other religions.

A Humble God?: Throughout the centuries, the many gods of the many peoples of the world have had human aspects that are often related to human vices. The Mesopotamian, Sumerian, Egyptian, Greek and Roman deities are all depicted with vices: they could be selfish and lustful, jealous and vengeful, yet sometimes merciful on a whim. Humans were their occasional play-things, subject to their whims rather than free. These gods were all relatable because of their human vices and were recognized as divine because of the power they had to commit vice, yet maintain their power as a god.

However, Jesus Christ, the God of the Christian, is depicted as humble, simple, and selfless: relatable because He became a human person; recognized as divine because of His virtue. Jesus proved His divinity by renouncing all of His power, submitting even to be conceived in the womb of a woman and to grow from baby to child to adult; to be understood or misunderstood, accepted or rejected and eventually captured, beaten, crucified and murdered. “And the word became flesh and made his dwelling among us” (Jn 1:14). He did not “call down fire” (Lk. 9:54) on his enemies or order legions of angels to rescue him in his moments of greatest need (Mt. 26:53). He used the power of his divinity by allowing his humanity to be free and by offering us his heart, full of love for us.

There is a beautiful quote about Jesus from one of the Second Vatican Council documents that is cited in the Catechism of the Catholic Church, and which says, “The Son of God. . . worked with human hands; he thought with a human mind. He acted with a human will, and with a human heart he loved. Born of the Virgin Mary, he has truly been made one of us, like to us in all things except sin” (CCC #470; GS 22 § 2).

The Attraction of Humility: Here is the attraction, for me anyway. It isn’t just that God became one of us, but that he chose to live the everyday, the mundane, the simple happiness and the suffering—and that he chose to love. Real human love takes humility, and Jesus did love. John 11:5 says, “Now Jesus loved Mary and her sister and Lazarus.” Lazarus was his friend and he wept at his friend’s death, even though he would raise him from death (Jn. 11:35). Jesus wept over Jerusalem as he looked at the cityscape, because he loved the people in it, past, present and future (Mt. 23:37-39; Lk. 19:41-44). At the end of his life, he prayed for us (Jn. 17:20) to be one in him and in the Father “that the love with which you loved me may be in them and I in them” (Jn. 17:26).

Looking at it from this perspective, the “unrealistic” statements in Zechariah’s canticle came true on a deeper level than even he could fathom. The freedom we gained from the birth we await at Christmas and the suffering and death that brought us life with resurrection gain us a greater freedom than anyone could have imagined. May our hearts be open to this freedom and respond with love to Love.

Your Friend in Christ, 

Nicole Buchholz

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Alex Kucera

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Alex Kucera has lived in Atlanta, GA, for the last 46 years. He is one of 9 children, married to his wife Karmen, and has 3 girls, one grandson, and a granddaughter on the way. Alex joined Regnum Christi in 2007. Out of the gate, he joined the Helping Hands Medical Missions apostolate and is still participating today with the Ghana Friendship Mission.

In 2009, Alex was asked to be the Atlanta RC Renewal Coordinator for the Atlanta Locality to help the RC members with the RC renewal process. Alex became a Group Leader in 2012 for four of the Atlanta Men’s Section Teams and continues today. Running in parallel, in 2013, Alex became a Team Leader and shepherded a large team of good men.

Alex was honored to be the Atlanta Mission Coordinator between 2010 to 2022 (12 years), coordinating 5-8 Holy Week Mission teams across Georgia. He also created and coordinated missions at a parish in Athens, GA, for 9 years. Alex continues to coordinate Holy Week Missions, Advent Missions, and Monthly missions at Good Shepherd Catholic Church in Cumming, GA.

From 2016 to 2022, Alex also served as the Men’s Section Assistant in Atlanta. He loved working with the Men’s Section Director, the Legionaries, Consecrated, and Women’s Section leadership teams.

Alex is exceptionally grateful to the Legionaries, Consecrated, and many RC members who he’s journeyed shoulder to shoulder, growing his relationship with Christ and others along the way. He knows that there is only one way, that’s Christ’s Way, with others!