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“Ask a Priest: What If I Struggle With Bulimia and Anorexia?”

Q: I have a huge problem with food. I am in my 40s, I live alone and still not married. Everybody says I’m a beautiful woman, but I just haven’t found the right man. I have struggled with bulimia and anorexia the last three years and have gone from being underweight to now bingeing where I can eat like a pig some days. I’m still slim but feel this is a huge problem. When I’m alone in my apartment I just want to eat a lot of sweets. Is that a Christian way to enjoy food while you live alone? What would Jesus say? I’m so nervous to be alone and have this problem. I never have friends over also because of COVID. Please help. – M.

Answered by Fr. Edward McIlmail, LC

A: My heart goes out to you.

From what you describe, you need to see a doctor or counselor as soon as possible.

Bulimia and anorexia are potentially life-threatening eating disorders. They require professional help.

Bulimia and anorexia are psychiatric illnesses that center on food and its consumption.

Bulimia is characterized by uncontrolled episodes of overeating, or bingeing. This is followed by purging with methods such as vomiting or misuse of laxatives. Anorexia, or anorexia nervosa, is a form of self-starvation.

Jesus doesn’t want you to do anything to hurt yourself. You are a beloved daughter of God.

So please, reach out to health-care professional right away. And stay close to the Blessed Virgin Mary through the rosary.

Count on my prayers, OK?

 

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“Ask a Priest: What If a Priest Is Warning of the End?”

Q: How can I respond to a friend who believes in the prophecies of a certain priest who claims to receive instructions from St. John, the Blessed Mother and others regarding the end of times? He instructs his followers to hoard food and build refuges to prepare for “The Warning.” How can I kindly explain to my friend that no one knows when the end of times will happen? She is convinced he is a prophet. – G.L.

Answered by Fr. Edward McIlmail, LC

A: As you mention, no one, save God, knows when the end times will arrive. “But of that day or hour, no one knows, neither the angels in heaven, nor the Son, but only the Father” (Mark 13:32).

So, if the angels in heaven don’t know the hour, it’s unlikely that anyone in this world knows it.

Moreover, talk of private revelations and warnings to hoard food always sound a bit suspect.

If the end times are really coming, a genuine prophet would be calling people to repent, not to stockpile vittles.

There has been a lot of end-times speculation lately. It’s the kind of thing that pops up when people and whole societies are facing a crisis.

Perhaps you could encourage your friend to keep calm and hopeful, and to keep her attention on Christ, the King of the universe. In his hands we will find our only security.

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“Ask a Priest: How Can I Explain the Hour Fast to My Son?”

Q: I just had a “discussion” with my visiting 28-year-old son about needing to fast one hour before receiving Holy Communion. He is asking, “Who made that rule up?” and “Where in the Bible is that?” If stomach-emptying is one of the goals, then conversely, why shouldn’t a person wait an hour after receiving Communion before eating? – so goes his argument. Thanks for your help! – D.

Answered by Fr. Edward McIlmail, LC

A: The tone of your son’s question makes one wonder whether he might be struggling with other issues. So this might not really be about the fast but about bigger matters such as faith and Church authority. No matter …

The hour fast is a discipline prescribed by the Church to help us prepare spiritually for Communion. It helps to underline the deep distinction between normal food and the Body and Blood of Christ that nourishes us supernaturally.

In the old days the fast was from midnight, so an hour fast is hardly an onerous obligation.

Many of the rules of the Church are not found explicitly in the Bible. Rather, Christ gives the Church to make disciplinary rules.

So if your son insists on some kind of biblical basis for the rule on fasting, you could cite Matthew 18:18 (“Whatever you bind on earth shall be bound in heaven”) and Luke 10:16 (“Whoever listens to you listens to me. Whoever rejects you rejects me”).

The idea here is that Jesus gives the Church real authority on earth, including authority over the administration of the sacraments.

The Church has no prescribed rules on eating after Communion, though it does say we should dedicate some time to a proper thanksgiving (which is often done in the period of silence before the final blessing).

I hope some of this helps. By the way, you might want to intensify your prayers for your son.

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“Ask a Priest: When Does Eating Become Gluttony?”

Q: When does eating become gluttony? Is it OK to slightly overeat? Say you want the last piece of meat, although you don’t really need it. It is not as though you would be sick if you ate it. Also, is eating dessert OK since it is not necessary for you? –D.L.

Answered by Fr. Edward McIlmail, LC

A: The simplest criterion is to say that we start to slip into gluttony when we eat more than we really need to eat.

I say “start to” because there isn’t a hard-and-fast line involved. Each person is unique, each metabolism is unique. Some people go long periods between meals and thus might be justified to load up as many calories as possible. And there might also be times when an extra bite could be justified if the alternative is to waste something — for instance, at a picnic where cooked meat can’t be easily and safely stored.

Gluttony is a disordered use of food and of the pleasure that eating and drinking gives us. The pleasure itself is part of God’s plan. He made food to taste good. He gave us taste buds. It is no sin to enjoy food, to prepare good food, to have a cake at a birthday party, etc. The point is when we become unreasonable in our pursuit of this pleasure. This leads to a disordered attachment, damage to our health, and spiritual damage too.

Perhaps you are asking the question because you sense that you might be crossing or being tempted to cross the line into gluttony. That might be a reason to pause and see if the Holy Spirit is calling you to a greater spirit of sacrifice.

Forgoing a little food at each meal is a nice way to practice self-discipline and to show solidarity with the poor of the world. It can certainly discipline us to better stand up to other (and worse) temptations of the flesh.

The Catechism briefly puts the danger of gluttony in context. No. 1866 says:

Vices can be classified according to the virtues they oppose, or also be linked to the capital sins which Christian experience has distinguished, following St. John Cassian and St. Gregory the Great. They are called “capital” because they engender other sins, other vices. They are pride, avarice, envy, wrath, lust, gluttony, and sloth or acedia. [end quoted material]

So gluttony – or even just simple overeating – can lead us down a slippery slope of vices if we aren’t careful.

This might be as good a time as ever to see where the Spirit is leading you. Pope Francis has been calling for greater simplicity in our lives and a greater spirit of sacrifice for the poor. Wouldn’t it be nice to give up a little something each day and contribute the difference to the poor? Food for thought.

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Alex Kucera has lived in Atlanta, GA, for the last 46 years. He is one of 9 children, married to his wife Karmen, and has 3 girls, one grandson, and a granddaughter on the way. Alex joined Regnum Christi in 2007. Out of the gate, he joined the Helping Hands Medical Missions apostolate and is still participating today with the Ghana Friendship Mission.

In 2009, Alex was asked to be the Atlanta RC Renewal Coordinator for the Atlanta Locality to help the RC members with the RC renewal process. Alex became a Group Leader in 2012 for four of the Atlanta Men’s Section Teams and continues today. Running in parallel, in 2013, Alex became a Team Leader and shepherded a large team of good men.

Alex was honored to be the Atlanta Mission Coordinator between 2010 to 2022 (12 years), coordinating 5-8 Holy Week Mission teams across Georgia. He also created and coordinated missions at a parish in Athens, GA, for 9 years. Alex continues to coordinate Holy Week Missions, Advent Missions, and Monthly missions at Good Shepherd Catholic Church in Cumming, GA.

From 2016 to 2022, Alex also served as the Men’s Section Assistant in Atlanta. He loved working with the Men’s Section Director, the Legionaries, Consecrated, and Women’s Section leadership teams.

Alex is exceptionally grateful to the Legionaries, Consecrated, and many RC members who he’s journeyed shoulder to shoulder, growing his relationship with Christ and others along the way. He knows that there is only one way, that’s Christ’s Way, with others!