October 4, 2024

Regnum Christi Spirituality Center Ask a Priest

“Ask a Priest: How Do I Speak With God?”

Q: How do I talk to God? I try to sit in silence and ask him questions about a very important decision, but I don’t know if it is my subconscious talking to me or God talking to me. How do I differentiate the two, and how do I correctly talk to God and ask him questions? – N.J.

Answered by Fr. Edward McIlmail, LC

A: Yours is a big question!

Talking to God isn’t like talking to your sister. You can’t see him, but he’s there.

And while he could speak to someone with a humanlike voice, God usually communicates more subtly and mysteriously.

A few quick ideas:

Don’t worry too much about the style of prayer. Just try to dedicate quiet time and try to be aware of God’s presence. You are his beloved daughter, and he loves it when you spend time with him.

If you want to speak from the heart, that’s fine. If saying a few prayers helps, that’s fine. The important thing is to try to focus on him. You can ask him for things, but it’s important to listen to him.

Listening means trying to be attentive to the movement of your heart. God might communicate with you at other times of the day: through an encounter with someone, through a word you hear in a conversation, or through a blessed object you see in a residence. The range is endless.

But to your other question: How do you know it’s God speaking and not you just talking to yourself?

This is where it helps to look for ways to stay objective.

Concretely, that means getting to confession on a regular basis, or having some kind of spiritual guide. It means studying what the Church teaches on various topics; for God will never contradict what the Church teaches.

At a practical level it helps to study the faith in a general way. Get a copy of the Youth Catechism (YouCat), for starters.

Then, read some books of spirituality, such as the Imitation of Christ by Thomas à Kempis. And don’t forget the Bible, especially the Gospels.

Remember, though, that God isn’t a vending machine. You can’t just plug in your coins (prayers) and expect a candy bar (the answer) to pop out.

God might seem evasive at times because he communicates in whispers. And to hear whispers you need to maintain an air of recollection in your life.

Also helpful could be my colleague Father Bartunek’s post on the four C’s of prayer.

I hope some of this helps. Count on my prayers.

 

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Regnum Christi Spirituality Center Uncle Eddy

St Francis of Assisi

Dear Frank,

It’s nice to hear that things are going well for you.  But I detected a worrying tone in your last note. It has to do with your comments about the interviews you’ve been having with potential employers.  It seems you are comparing them superficially, looking at the amount of the salary they offer, the quality of leather exhibited by their furniture, the taste in ties shown by the interviewer… I commend your attention to detail, and I am sure that such considerations ought to be factored into your decisions.  Nevertheless, are they the most important factors? Need I remind you that our Lord once asked, “What will it profit a man to gain the whole world if he loses his soul?” (Matthew 16:26) Aristotle pointed out that little mistakes at beginnings make for huge errors at the end – the decisions you are making now are the beginning of your life in the world; a little egoism now could throw you into a tragic tailspin later.  I am not just speaking theoretically; better men than you have failed from similar causes. This year, I recommend that you adopt today’s saint as your patron. His words and example should keep you on track.

First his example.  You are probably familiar with the story of St Francis – most people know more about him than about other saints.  He was from the central Italian town of Assisi (still one of the gems of Europe, by the way, I hope you get a chance to see it some day), the outgoing and fashionable son of a successful cloth merchant.  He cared little for business and less for studies, and dedicated himself wholeheartedly to having a good time with his friends and enjoying the luxurious pleasures that his plentiful pocketbook easily supplied.  As he grew to manhood, he became enchanted with the chivalrous ideals of his age, and did his best to embark upon a career as a knight. But sickness intervened, as did the interior nudging of divine grace. He aborted his plans to go off and fight in the wars, and returned to his normal life, but God was at work in his heart, and he was fast falling in love with the heavenly kingdom.  He didn’t know where that love affair would lead him, but he recognized early on that it required him to discipline his hitherto self-indulgent tendencies. At this juncture, he was riding one day through the plain beneath Assisi when he encountered a leper whose disease was so advanced that the mere sight of his horrific sores violently repulsed Francis. He recognized immediately that this was not a mere chance encounter.  Gathering what strength he could to overcome his repugnance, he dismounted and approached the beggar. The poor man stretched out his disfigured hand to receive an alms, and Francis gave him one. At the same time he embraced the leper and kissed him. He had successfully mastered his selfish feelings of revulsion in order to perform a Christian act of charity. Thus began the incomparable and immortal (he founded the Franciscan Order) career of the saint whom history unanimously calls “the closest image of Christ after Christ himself.”

Now for his words.  Among the many, here’s a sentence that you should engrave on your memory and your desk: “Men lose all the material things they leave behind them in this world, but they carry with them the reward of their charity and the alms they give.”  It’s not that God doesn’t want you to strive to achieve greatness; it’s just that he wants you to strive to achieve greatness that will LAST FOREVER AND FOREVER, greatness that will bring joy to thousands of others, like the ripples in a pond.

So as you continue doing your interviews, keep St Francis in mind, and do what Christ would do.

Your devoted uncle, Eddy

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October 4, 2024 – Payback Time

 

Memorial of Saint Francis of Assisi, religious

 

 

Luke 10:13-16

 

Jesus said to them, “Woe to you, Chorazin! Woe to you, Bethsaida! For if the mighty deeds done in your midst had been done in Tyre and Sidon, they would long ago have repented, sitting in sackcloth and ashes. But it will be more tolerable for Tyre and Sidon at the judgment than for you. And as for you, Capernaum, ‘Will you be exalted to heaven? You will go down to the netherworld.’ Whoever listens to you listens to me. Whoever rejects you rejects me. And whoever rejects me rejects the one who sent me.”

 

Introductory Prayer: Lord, I believe that you are with me as I begin this prayer. I trust in your kindness and love. You know my weaknesses because you saw them all during the agony you underwent for me on Good Friday. I wish to stay as close to you in this prayer as your Mother did to you at the foot of the cross. Accept this as the expression of my love for you.

 

Petition: Lord, help me to appreciate your gifts and use them to the best of my ability, for your glory.

 

  1. The Privileged Few: Today we see another side of Jesus in the Gospel. Often, we see him as the miracle worker, curing the sick, raising the dead. But now we see the flipside of these miracles: Christ demands a response from the people who have witnessed them. It’s not enough that people stare in wonderment at Our Lord’s mighty deeds. Those deeds, among other things, prove his divine origin and the truthfulness of his message. Part of that message demands repentance and conversion. Closer to our own day, we can think of the tens of millions of people who personally saw Pope Saint John Paul II in his many public appearances. How many of those people actually changed their lives after the encounter? How have I responded to God’s grace and favor in my life? Have I taken God’s graces for granted?

 

  1. The Not-So-Blessed: God, in his mysterious design, seems to favor some souls with gifts not given to others. Here, Jesus acknowledges that Tyre and Sidon—pagan towns—would have responded better to his miracles than did Chorazin and Capernaum. That begs the question: Why didn’t Jesus perform more miracles in those Gentile towns? Alas, ours is not the place to question the wisdom of God. Suffice it to say that Christ gives some of us more than he gives others, and he expects to see a return on his investment. It’s not enough that we keep our faith untarnished and sitting on a shelf, hidden from the world. No. The gift of faith should prompt us to strive for holiness, for continual conversion of heart, and for zeal to build the Church. Does faith impact my life like that?

 

  1. Domino Effect: Christ’s authority includes his ability to delegate it. To the Church, he gives the power to bind and to loose. “Whose sins you forgive are forgiven them, and whose sins you retain are retained” (Jn 20:23). Moreover, number 891 of the Catechism observes that “The Roman Pontiff, head of the college of bishops, enjoys […] infallibility in virtue of his office, when, as supreme pastor and teacher of all the faithful—who confirms his brethren in the faith—he proclaims by a definitive act a doctrine pertaining to faith or morals.” When we follow the Holy Father’s teaching, we honor the One who gave him authority. And Our Lord’s authority extends to other areas: to parents over their dependent children, to government officials who oversee the common good, etc. Do I respect the legitimate authority of those around me? Do I understand that obedience to legitimate authority is a form of obedience to God himself?

 

Conversation with Christ: Jesus, help me see that your obedience to Pilate on Good Friday was part of your obedience to your loving Father in heaven. Let me understand that obedience to legitimate authority is a means of growth in humility and holiness.

 

Resolution: I will carry out one request that a legitimate authority (a boss, a parent, etc.) has been asking of me… and do it with joy.

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Alex Kucera

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Alex Kucera has lived in Atlanta, GA, for the last 46 years. He is one of 9 children, married to his wife Karmen, and has 3 girls, one grandson, and a granddaughter on the way. Alex joined Regnum Christi in 2007. Out of the gate, he joined the Helping Hands Medical Missions apostolate and is still participating today with the Ghana Friendship Mission.

In 2009, Alex was asked to be the Atlanta RC Renewal Coordinator for the Atlanta Locality to help the RC members with the RC renewal process. Alex became a Group Leader in 2012 for four of the Atlanta Men’s Section Teams and continues today. Running in parallel, in 2013, Alex became a Team Leader and shepherded a large team of good men.

Alex was honored to be the Atlanta Mission Coordinator between 2010 to 2022 (12 years), coordinating 5-8 Holy Week Mission teams across Georgia. He also created and coordinated missions at a parish in Athens, GA, for 9 years. Alex continues to coordinate Holy Week Missions, Advent Missions, and Monthly missions at Good Shepherd Catholic Church in Cumming, GA.

From 2016 to 2022, Alex also served as the Men’s Section Assistant in Atlanta. He loved working with the Men’s Section Director, the Legionaries, Consecrated, and Women’s Section leadership teams.

Alex is exceptionally grateful to the Legionaries, Consecrated, and many RC members who he’s journeyed shoulder to shoulder, growing his relationship with Christ and others along the way. He knows that there is only one way, that’s Christ’s Way, with others!