February 26, 2024

Regnum Christi Spirituality Center Uncle Eddy

St Paula of Saint Joseph of Calasanz

Dear Josephine,

I am so relieved you have finally chosen a major.  I am doubly relieved that it is in a solid, substantial academic discipline and not in one of these faddy, fashionable pseudo-disciplines that last a couple years and then dissipate.  You will find, I am sure (if your professors are even half-decent), that the old proverb rings quite true: “Historia magister vitae”, “History is life’s teacher.”  Part of me, in fact, wishes that EVERYONE were required to major in history.  It would preempt so many ideological problems.  Take the misunderstanding of the Church’s view of women, for instance.  Today’s saint alone disproves all the false accusations about the Church being oppressive and misogynistic, but if you didn’t study a bit of history, you’d never hear about her.

Paula grew up in tough circumstances.  She was the eldest of five children and had to work hard to help her widowed mother provide for and take care of the family.  But in the midst of her struggles she discovered her vocation.  She realized that women in her society had scant opportunity for formation, education, and advancement, and she felt called to change that.

When she was 30-years-old, she deemed the time was right.  With a friend to accompany and help her, she moved to the capital of the region and opened a school for the formation and education of girls.  She envisioned it as a way to promote the advancement of women and the good of family life, which was a prerequisite for the improvement of society.  Soon she opened a second school in her home town, then a third, and with the third she came into contact with some priests who recognized her gift.  They encouraged her to expand her influence by starting a Congregation dedicated to furthering the work.  She did.  It is called the Daughters of Mary, or the Sisters of the Pious Schools.

She devoted the rest of her life to embodying the spirit of her Institute, even though she was never elected its superior.  By the time of her death, over 300 Sisters were engaged in the new apostolate in 19 schools throughout Spain.  By the time of her canonization in 2001, 800 sisters were educating more than 30,000 students in 19 countries.

So even as the modern feminist movement was trying to break ground, the Catholic Church was already promoting the integral development and education of women through the work not only of St Paula, but also through dozens of other, similar works that were springing up throughout Europe and the Americas.  If that little lesson of history were learned by the feminist critics of the Church, it would help open their eyes to the undeniable truth that Catholicism not only values, but stimulates other social institutions to value the unique contribution of the feminine genius to the good of the human family.

Congratulations again, and may your studies in History be a good teacher, for life.

Your devoted uncle,

Eddy

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February 26, 2024 – Forgiveness from the Heart

 

 

 

 

 

Monday of the Second Week of Lent

 

Luke 6:36-38

 

Jesus said to his disciples: “Be merciful, just as your Father is merciful. Stop judging and you will not be judged. Stop condemning and you will not be condemned. Forgive and you will be forgiven. Give and gifts will be given to you; a good measure, packed together, shaken down, and overflowing, will be poured into your lap. For the measure with which you measure will in return be measured out to you.”

 

Introductory Prayer: Dear Jesus, too often I compare myself with others. It’s easy for me to find or imagine my superiority to them. I ignore you and your great goodness. I forget that everything I have comes from you and that I can’t claim credit for any of my qualities or virtues. I wish to keep this truth in mind and to have an attitude of genuine humility in my heart. Here I am, Lord, to know and love you more through prayer.

 

Petition: Lord, help me to forgive from the heart.

 

  1. The True Battlefield: Although it is difficult, we can usually bring ourselves around to excuse an injustice we have suffered. We forget about what happened, and we try to move forward. However, it is more difficult for us to forgive when we look into our offender’s heart and refuse to turn a blind eye to the goodness that is there. Our hearts are a battleground for good and evil, and to forgive is to be willing to help both the offender and ourselves overcome the logic of evil. It is to wager on the side of good and to trust that goodness is ultimately more attractive to the human heart than the idol of evil. Christ always looked into the heart and wagered on the side of good.

 

  1. Turning the Other Cheek: “For if you love those who love you, what credit is that to you? Even sinners love those who love them” (Lk 6:32). Christian forgiveness involves waiving our claim to damages. It means turning the other cheek. It means giving up our cloak as well. Yet all this is relatively easy in comparison to giving over our good name, to proceeding in charity even when we will be misunderstood. Even here, we must waive our claim to damages, willingly die in the furrow, and patiently await the Father to raise us up again.

 

  1. Going the Entire Distance: The Christian ethic is positive. It does not consist merely in not doing bad things but in doing good things; building up positively. We change the world little by not doing things. Christ was not satisfied with that. He gave up his tunic, he gave up his good name, and he gave up everything—to the last drop of his blood. So often we feel good about ourselves because we measure up to our neighbor; but it is not our neighbor with whom we must compare ourselves. It is God with whom we must compare ourselves, and he has shown us how to be fruitful: by paying our ransom with his own blood. In forgiveness and mercy, his generosity is without measure.

 

Conversation with Christ: Dear Jesus, help me to seek perfection in loving you and my neighbor constantly. I want to travel the path of generous love because it is your path, and you are the source of all my happiness.

 

Resolution: I will be the first to offer an apology or a solution to build unity in my home and workplace.

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Alex Kucera has lived in Atlanta, GA, for the last 46 years. He is one of 9 children, married to his wife Karmen, and has 3 girls, one grandson, and a granddaughter on the way. Alex joined Regnum Christi in 2007. Out of the gate, he joined the Helping Hands Medical Missions apostolate and is still participating today with the Ghana Friendship Mission.

In 2009, Alex was asked to be the Atlanta RC Renewal Coordinator for the Atlanta Locality to help the RC members with the RC renewal process. Alex became a Group Leader in 2012 for four of the Atlanta Men’s Section Teams and continues today. Running in parallel, in 2013, Alex became a Team Leader and shepherded a large team of good men.

Alex was honored to be the Atlanta Mission Coordinator between 2010 to 2022 (12 years), coordinating 5-8 Holy Week Mission teams across Georgia. He also created and coordinated missions at a parish in Athens, GA, for 9 years. Alex continues to coordinate Holy Week Missions, Advent Missions, and Monthly missions at Good Shepherd Catholic Church in Cumming, GA.

From 2016 to 2022, Alex also served as the Men’s Section Assistant in Atlanta. He loved working with the Men’s Section Director, the Legionaries, Consecrated, and Women’s Section leadership teams.

Alex is exceptionally grateful to the Legionaries, Consecrated, and many RC members who he’s journeyed shoulder to shoulder, growing his relationship with Christ and others along the way. He knows that there is only one way, that’s Christ’s Way, with others!